2. What is the advantage of ejaculation from the vulva or vagina?
3. What does it feel like to squirt?
4. What do i need to consider when squirting?
5. How to squirt with the G-Sport massage?
6. Our 6 tips for you to squirt
7. The best Sex Toys for Squirting
Squirting
How does Squirting work?
The word „squirting“ has become a popular word to describe the act of female ejaculation, but there are many misconceptions about this act. Squirting itself is not the most accurate description of what happens, because rather than shooting out of the body, like water out of the hose, the thin fluid actually flows or gushes out the urethra, during female ejaculation. Among countless other rumors, one of the most common misconceptions is that the warm, thin fluid that is secreted is actually pure urine. This of course is complete nonsense, but more on that later…
Despite all the rumours, it is important to understand that squirting is neither unhealthy or disgusting in any way. In fact, whoever achieves squirting, is actually experiencing arousal with every fiber of their body and thus, much more intensely.
In short, there is absolutely nothing wrong with squirting because it is neither unhealthy nor disgusting in any way. What is in favour of squirting is that you feel your own arousal much more intensely. So squirting during sex or masturbation is something completely natural and nothing to be ashamed of.
What is the advantage of ejaculation from the vulva or vagina?
The biggest advantage of ejaculation is the arousing feeling you get when you squirt. As most people with a vulva or vagina can only squirt if they can let go of everything at the right moment, squirting is also an absolute blessing and relaxation for the mind. You also get to know your body better and broaden your horizons. But here's the big BUT: if you're not comfortable with the idea of squirting, that's fine. No one should talk you into something you don't feel comfortable with. Really listen to yourself and your body. Yes, squirting can give you a new sensation, but of course it's not a prerequisite for enjoying sex.
What does it feel like to squirt?
Because squirting can cause fluid to leak from the urethra (not in small amounts), you may feel the need to urinate just before squirting. This feeling can be unpleasant, which in turn reduces the relaxation (so important for squirting). This is the little vicious circle you can get into. That's why it's so important to know that a.) it's okay for fluid to come out of your urethra (so, strictly speaking, your feelings aren't deceiving you) and b.) it's not classic urine. Admittedly, it's not easy to get your head around the fact that it's okay to give in to the feeling of urinating. After all, the feeling can be extremely embarrassing, especially if you are not alone.
What do i need to consider when squirting?
It can get quite wet during the squirting. This is simply due to the fluid that squirts out of the urethra during squirting. It is not possible to give a general answer about both the range of the squirts and the amount of fluid during squirting, as this is very individual. However, as a rule of thumb you can remember that the liquid can sometimes spray up to two metres. If it's your first time, lie on your back in bed with your legs up. Place a large towel under your pelvis to catch the liquid. Alternatively, a bath is ideal.
How to squirt with the G-Sport massage?
To be able to come at all, you should focus on stimulating your G-spot - for example, by inserting your middle and ring fingers at the same time in a slightly bent position, or by using a sex toy to stimulate the G-spot. The G-spot is located about four to six centimetres inside the vagina, on the front wall of the vagina - at the same level as the female prostate, also known as the paraurethral or Skene's gland, whose ducts are located right next to the urethral opening. When aroused by stimulation of the clitoris and vagina, at best simultaneously, the Skene glands fill with a secretion similar to 'male ejaculate'. If there is also compression of the inner clitoral spurs and the actual outlet, the secretion - with sufficient congestion - will make its way and eventually pour out of the urethra in increased quantities. The sign of an impending squirt is therefore comparable to the feeling of an urge to urinate. If you can let go instead of suppressing the urge, you can actually experience the extra-wet squirt moment.
Our 5 tips for you to squirt
- take your time and create a safe, quiet environment This is important because you need to feel comfortable squirting, especially if you are a beginner. Be patient and don't be disappointed if it doesn't work the first time. Spraying doesn't work at the touch of a button, so take your time and listen to your body and your inner voice. Always do what feels right for you.
- empty your bladder before squirting We recommend that you do this so that you know with a clear conscience that you don't really need to pee, but that you 'just' want the ejaculate to come out of your urethra. This way you can concentrate fully on the moment of your squirt.
- get in the mood with foreplay A cold start usually doesn't work when it comes to squirting (at least for beginners). That's why it's important to prepare yourself with intensive foreplay. For example, start by massaging your clitoris to get you in the mood, and then slowly insert a finger or sex toy into your vagina. You can use lubricant if you like. If you are using a silicone sex toy, we recommend using water-based personal lubricant. So take all the time YOU need during foreplay and slowly approach your G-spot.
- then Stimulate the G-spot with your middle and ring fingers or with a special G-spot toy. You have now reached your G-spot and can massage it with precise pressure. Again, squirting is not a race. Pay particular attention to how you feel when massaging your G-spot and whether you are in the right place. Just explore your vagina and don't expect too much. It's quite possible that squirting will work the first time, but you may need to repeat the squirting session another day.
- Give in to the urge to urinate: THIS is your squirt moment! If you feel the urge to urinate during the G-spot massage, this is your squirt moment. Now it's very important that you stay relaxed and just keep going. Gently squeeze your G-spot and give in to the feeling of urination. Don't worry, you'll probably only squirt a little the first time. This is normal as you need to get used to the sensation.
- try again If you like the feeling, it is important to try squirting again in a new squirting session on a different day. If you have already squirted a little and liked the feeling and the orgasm, try to get used to the feeling of squirting through practice.
The best Sex Toys for Squirting
As a German manufacturer of high quality sex toys, we have focused on massaging the G-spot with a variety of toys. So you can sit back and relax even more, close your eyes and let yourself be pampered by your new waterproof favourite toy.
Our recommendation for your first orgasm: the MISS BI vibrator. The MISS BI rabbit vibrator has two powerful motors in the arm (for clitoral stimulation) and in the slightly curved shaft (for precise G-spot stimulation). With 6 speeds and 6 vibrating rhythms per motor, MISS BI delivers intense but pleasurable vibration. After a warm-up foreplay, you can easily stimulate your clitoris with the intense vibration and then slowly insert the shaft of MISS BI into your vagina. If you like, you can use water-based lubricant to help. Do this at your own pace so that you always feel comfortable. Then insert MISS BI into the vagina until the shaft stimulates the clitoris and the slightly curved shaft gently presses on your G-spot. Thanks to the handy LOOP handle, you can even apply a little pressure to your G-spot through the toy. When you feel you are about to come, close your eyes, think of something nice and just let go of any tension or urge to urinate. The result is a delicious orgasm complete with squirting. And the best part is that you control the experience and can repeat it as often as you like. Are you ready?